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Failure or an Opportunity to Learn? Have in mind that the very moment that you say: "Hey, EFT is not working!" actually it is not a comment on the technique itself, since it does work... all the time, if done properly. Rather, take this as a comment about what is there for you to experiment, learn and explore in the endless possibilities of EFT, instead of embarking yourself in a unreasonable chain of criticism on EFT or even worse, on yourself. Same thing happens if you start tapping with a certain set of words and it seems that nothing is happening; chances are that, besides the 9 causes we have listed below, you haven't hit the right keyword... yet. Remember that your subconscious or autobrain is like a child, and it understands only certain words... literally. It doesn't have the capacity of going over different possibilities of meaning by itself. Your subconscious mind and Google Have you seen what happens when you type a certain misleading keyword in the search box of Google? Suppose you type "weelbeing" with an obvious typo for 'wellbeing'? Google is smart enough -at least the guys who wrote the code are- to not only recognize it as a probable error, but it gives you the choice to correct it with another word that could be the one you really meant, and will display the phrase "Did you mean: wellbeing". Try it and see it by yourself. Well, our subconscious is no Google, and even though it makes a far superior work of searching for the proper word than any human search engine, if you give it a wrong term, it just won't do the job. It wouldn't understand it, and even less, try to correct it.
Hitting the Jackpot My dad, for example, which is an expert in EFT on his own right, woke up this past Monday with a pain that he felt was in the right side of his back. It was so strong, that he even felt it reflected with a pressure in the right side of his chest. He had suffered this pain for years, before learning EFT and when back then he first tapped on this issue, to his amazement, it was his first "one minute wonder" of the many has experienced since then, not only with him but with many others. In a matter of seconds, the relief and cure for his long standing back pain arrived for good, something that no accupuncture or classic clinical treatment achieved. So, this Monday, after years of that, he started to tap for the pain to cease, with no luck at all. He confessed me that at first, he was very surprised because the back pain had returned, unexpectedly for him; and there was when he lost focus, in my opinion and in his, after reviewing what happened that day. You see, he was so nailed to the former back pain that he instantly started tapping saying: "Even though I have this pain in the right side of my back, I deeply and completely accept myself" Nothing happened. Since it is recommended to be persistent, so he went over more rounds of tapping... no luck. When Dan, one of my brothers, woke up too, my dad ask for his assistance and using muscle testing, he went over the keyword phrase only to find that it was useless, so he tried other options; the first one that popped in his mind (oh, yes, when you tap on your karate chop point, awaraness seem to start working in a more brilliant fashion), was: "Even though I have this pain that I thought was in my back, which could be in my left lung instead, I deeply...etc". Voilà! The pain dropped almost instantly. It was, my father believes now, almost as his subconcious was waiting only for the proper command to do the job. In following rounds he added "...Though I have this pain in my left lung probably by exposure to cold air, I choose to warm my left lung and my muscles and arteries around it, I deeply and..." So, if for some reason the EFT tapping seems not to work, please try other wording for your specific issue, wheter physical, emotional... or even spiritual. And if after a few different alternatives have been tried upon, then procede to go overs the next probable causes.
If you happen to fall in the unlikely case of encountering problems making EFT work for some issue, we strongly suggest that you contact us or a qualified practioner that has mastered EFT. Below we have listed some of the probable causes for interference with the 'magic' of EFT:
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